Children are all from Buddha.
Children are gifts from the Heaven.
Children are the mirrors that reflect the Heart of Parents.
Dear amazing you!
the reason for my birthing pain,
was given a month extension
for its deadline….
I felt a bit empty
and even silly
being so nervous up about it
for the past few weeks…
yes….. was all self-created drama,
and was totally unnecessary.
But when you are once in it,
it is hard to realize what you are doing
and yet therefore,
things and people around you start telling
in one way or another when needed.
Often those people are called “soul mates”
and one of the closest soulmate relationship
is Mother & Child.
SO, no wonder,
there are LOTS of dramas that can happen there.
So I just wanted to say today,
especially to mothers….
It is NOT your fault!
It is NOT your fault that
the child got sick,
the child got bullied,
the child got bad grades
the child got failed the exam
the child got so anxious and cannot go to school,
the child cannot do things that you wish the to do.
In the process of growing up,
it is not easy for children,
but so as for mothers.
And so that often,
mother are more upset
and cannot forgive and accept at all.
Of course it is reasonable
for mothers to concern about their child.
But please remember that
even your child fails,
even your child gives up,
even your child hurts you,
those don’t mean that
they don’t love you.
You may have failed something
you may have missed something
you may have made some mistakes,
you may have hurt your children,
It does NOT mean that
you are not a good mother.
Children have their own learning to do.
and their learning is different
by generation, country, culture, ..etc.
Recently there are more children
born with quite mature souls
so that they can feel so much,
they can feel the absurdity and contradiction
at home, at school, in the society, and in the world.
without rational understanding and explanation.
This is quite scary and overwhelming for them,
and so that they often express their distress
through their behaviors.
These children are often called as
Indigo or crystal children..etc.
And often in the current medical system,
they are give certain diagnosis and
medicated to control their feelings and sensitivity.
This is a social phenomenon.
It is not a problem,
not a deficiency,
nor a disability,
it is a
for those children to cultivate
and flourish as a unique being in this world.
you are also
A GIFTED MOTHER.
Because of you,
the child can feel support to be herself or himself,
the child can feel secure to live here,
the child can feel encouragement to act.
the child can feel strong to overcome challenges,
the child can feel love to love oneself, you, others, and world.
your child chose you as his or her mother.
Please remember that.
Please be proud to be the mother.
Your child knew that you are the light
which keeps shining on him or her
to have hope and inspiration in life
even in the darkest moments in life.
It is like a Sun,
shining on the land,
so that seeds can sprout and
grow into trees,
and drop some seeds onto the Earth again,
to repeat this precious cycle of life.
for the society,
Mothers are the SUN.
the warm look,
and kind words,
that can embrace warmly and safely
the fragile little hearts of children,
who could be so anxious and confused,
for protection and healing,
provide bright light of encouragement and inspiration
and DELICIOUS REMINDER,
for the children to embrace their own learning
to grow and transform into the light themselves.
Aren’t you amazing?
Thank you SO much to all mothers in the world –
You are absolutely amazing!!
With love, hope and gratitude from my heart,